It’s best to wait for the one you want than settle for the one available. Best to wait for the one you love than one who’s around. Best to wait for the right one because life’s too short to be wasted on just someone.
Keep your eyes open, and don’t fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren’t really that important. Once you decide to commit to someone, over time, their flaws, vulnerabilities, pet peeves, and differences will become more obvious.
If you love your mate and want the relationship to grow and evolve, you’ve got to learn how to close one eye and not let every little thing bother you.You and your mate have many different expectations, emotional needs, values,dreams, weaknesses, and strengths. You are two unique individual children of God who have decided to share a life together.
Neither one of you are perfect, but are you perfect for each other? Do you bring out the best in each other? Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare and control?
Manipulation, control, jealousy, neediness, and selfishness are not the ingredients of a thriving, healthy, loving and
What keeps a relationship strong?
* a sense of humor
* sharing household tasks
* some getaway time without business or children
* daily exchanges (a meal, shared activity, a hug, a call, a touch, a note)
* sharing common goals and interests
* giving each other space to grow without feeling insecure
* giving each other a sense of belonging and assurances of commitment
If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment, withdrawal, abuse, neglect, dishonesty and pain
Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion,and the romance in a relationship and find out that you still care for that person.