Coping with separation specially when you are in love can be one of the hardest experiences in life. Although its for a short time, the hope of the person’s return makes it easier for us to handle. However the intense emotional pain that comes along with it is very difficult to overcome.
For those who say that separation is easy, it’s a bold statement, but trust me, through distance, your heart really does grow fonder, through the thousands of miles of separation, you realize that you are missing something. The mornings will greet you and the nights might bid you to sleep.. and yet, the sweetness of the morning breeze… and the sparkle of the night air is not the same..there will be a feeling of something missing.. an emptiness…. you just wish like having the most hectic days of life.. because it gives you a chance to fill a void that is always present within you but …as the day slows down… the memory of your love catches up.. and the longing of this aching heart begins to creep up within …and the hope that someday both will meet again is the only thing that keeps you going.
It is the distance that makes life a little hard. But then again distance between two hearts is not an obstacle; rather a great reminder of just how strong love can be.
If you have ever been infatuated, you would have realized that infatuation is weakened by time and separation where real love is strengthened by time and separation. This does not mean that there will be no pain in separation. On the contrary, there is great pain in separation if you are truly in love. The greater your capacity to love, the greater your capacity to feel the pain.
“There is one pain I often feel, which you will never know. It is caused by the absence of you.”